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It is five small steps, and none of them take long. You do not have to do all five at once. Start with the one that fits where the two of you are right now.

I wrote it because drifting apart is rarely one big event. It is a hundred small silences. And small steps, taken steadily, are usually what brings two people back.

Back to Best Friends: 5 Small Steps to Reconnect When Your Marriage Has Drifted
Back to Best Friends: 5 Small Steps to Reconnect When Your Marriage Has Drifted
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When you are ready for the next steps, Mend the Marriage walks you through them

By now you have one small promise, a weekly check-in and four sentences to read to each other, and that’s a real start.

Mend the Marriage is a home programme by relationship coach Brad Browning that walks you through the next steps at your own pace.

✓ The communication templates give you gentle words for starting a hard conversation, so your spouse hears an invitation and stays open.

✓ A worksheet on conflict triggers helps you spot what sets off your usual arguments, so you can catch them before they start.

✓ The resentment audit helps you find the old hurts you’re still carrying, so you can talk them through one at a time.

✓ There’s a 230-page guide and a four-hour audio version, so you can listen on the drive home from church or while you do the dishes.

It’s $49.95 once with a 60-day money-back guarantee, so you can begin it this week alongside your first small promise. If you’d like more small steps like these, follow me on Instagram: @fruitfulafter50.

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